In this video, there are two sides discussing whether students in
university should take abortion or give birth when they are pregnant.
Below are the two main points about why
some people do not want to give birth.
1. Rather take abortion cruelly, than
consider it reluctantly.
2. How can children support children? A mistake
will be a permanent regret
In this video we can notice that for most of students, the main reason
why they rather take abortion than giving birth is Money. “College students do
not really have enough financial capacity. Some of them probably still have to
ask money from family. If give a birth, then will you use the money that
parents give to support your child or just ask family to take care of it?” said
a male student. They think in finance, some of students still have to depend on
family, how could they have enough money to support a child? Most of students
have no stable job, and do not have time to earn much money. They think it is
even hard enough to support themselves.
The second part is marriage. They think it is necessary for children
to have parents, and it means they have to get married. However, the baby is
unexpected, they haven’t consider whether the lover is their spouse. They are
afraid of regretting to get married. They do not want the child becomes the
reason for them to get married or the trouble when they decide to get divorced.
“The most important is, I think the relationship between students is still not
that mature, you have to consider whether the person is the one you will live
with forever, so will you marry him/ her?” said a male student. Some of
students are mature in physical, so they have sex, but the truth is that in
both of mental and their relationship, they cannot be responsible to the
possible result that having sex would bring.
I think immature is the most important reason for students not to
give birth. Because those external problem, like money, still can be solved.
However, the inner problem about mental mature cannot be solved in a short time.
In the video, those students think how children can support children. For some
of immature students, they are afraid of taking the responsibility, and they
even cannot take care of themselves, so that they do not want to have more
troubles. Furthermore, they do not really think it is a baby, most of them
treat it as a trouble. Because being pregnant is unexpected, especially under
no marriage, they think it is a fault. In the video, the host asks a question:
“Who will you tell you are pregnant first?” and no one wants to tell their
parents first, because they do not want to disturb parents. Although they think
they are able to deal with the situation, they are subconscious to treat it as
a mistake.
To sum up, the side that supports taking abortion tends to consider
real life problems and about their future. They all admit that they don’t have
enough money and are not mature to have a baby, so taking abortion becomes a
way for them to escape these troublesome problems.
Original content:
1. 與其勉為其難 到不如快刀斬藕絲
2. 小孩怎能養小孩 一失足成千古恨
Rather take abortion cruelly, than consider it reluctantly
How can children support children? A mistake will be a permanent
regret
告訴男朋友是一件很困難的事，第二個是還要聽他的反應，如果他今天跟我說你不要生下來，你就會想說他一定是不會愛我，如果它叫我生下來，你又會開始想說那有經濟能力嗎？如果生下來會娶我嗎？如果要思考這麼多很難過，那就直接拿掉就好。我覺得大學生真的沒有能力，小孩生出來會很可憐
也會麻煩到父母，因為你絕對沒有辦法自己照顧他。 (2:00~2:50)
At first, it is difficult to tell boyfriend that I am pregnant.
Second is to listen to his recreation. If today he asks you not to give a
birth, you will think he doesn’t love certainly. If he asks me to give a birth,
you will starts to think do we have the financial capacity? Will he marry me
after I give a birth? If I have to consider many aspects in despair, I think it
will be better to take abortion straightly.
I think college students really have no capacity, the child will be
poor, and you have to ask parents for help, because you can’t take care of
child by yourself.
大學生的經濟能力實在是沒那麼強，有些人可能一個月還是跟家裡拿錢，生下來後，是要拿家裡的人給你的錢去養他？還是就要丟給家裡養？那是一個很大問題，而且生下來你沒辦法給他一個完好的生活，連奶粉錢可能都是問題的時候，生下來要幹嘛？重點我覺得大學生彼此之間的感情都還不是那麼成熟，可能這個人是不是你一輩子要走下去的人，那你這時候要不要跟它結婚？(6:47~7:20)
College students do not really have enough financial capacity. Some
of them probably still have to ask money from family. If give a birth, then
will you use the money that parents give to support your child or just ask
family to take care of it? It is big problem, and you cannot give child a good
life, and when milk powder becomes a problem, why give a birth? The most
important is, I think the relationship between students is still not that
mature, you have to consider whether the person is the one you will live with
forever, so will you marry him/ her?
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Source: ctitv (2011-05-03). 5/3 College Talk: If College
Students Are Pregnant (part2). Retrieved(Oct.10.2013) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Cn5nhnBMFg
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